Think about sex and sexual fantasies is totally normal and healthy. Fantasize makes you aware of your own desires and teaches you the way in which it responds your body (many people masturbate while they fantasize).
Gives you the opportunity to explore new sensations and represent situations you may be able to make any day. It also gives you the freedom to enjoy exciting sexual encounters that you will never dare to have in real life.
There is no rule, so that your imagination can take you to any situation you want. And you don’t have to worry about hurting anyone. The fantasies exist only in your mind; you control how to begin, what happens to them and how they end, and nobody has to know.
Almost all people have a fantasy life. Some people dream to wake up with romantic encounters with people they already know, or passionate meetings with someone you have never known. Others recreate with detailed images of their sexual experiences. It is not unusual to have fantasies with members of the same sex. This is one of the ways in which people explore their interest in the activities with the same sex. This type of fantasies does not mean anything. It is possible that someday you have sexual intercourse with someone of the same sex, but it is also possible that will never happen.
Some people are concerned with their fantasies. For example, a woman who imagines that she is forced to have sex are afraid that this is a signal that they want to that violence. This is not the case. A violation in real life is nothing like the security of a fantasy of forced sex, in that the person who has the imagination always preserves the control.
Some women enjoy this type of fantasies because it allows them to express all the strength of their sexual arousal without having to worry about anything. The guys who fantasize imagining that force them to have sex can do to balance the conventional role of man means that he must be the dominant part. If you have fantasies that you really uncomfortable, could help you to discuss with someone you trust or a sex counselor accredited.
Should couples share their sexual fantasies?
Share the fantasies can be fun, but not all enjoy it. Before opening fully and tell everything, think for a few minutes which will be the way in which react to your partner. Your fantasies will make you feel uncomfortable? You will feel afraid? It is best to test the ground telling a little at a time. If everything seems okay, a little more and if it seems to bother in any way, stop. It is entirely correct that the fantasies are something private.