You have to talk to your partner about sex. Maybe you do not want to because you are shy or shy, but you must give yourself courage and speak it anyway. The reason is simple: you deserve your needs to be satisfied with the relationship.
If your partner has no interest in listening to what you want to say, then it is time to find another partner. If you have a relationship in which both care a lot about your partner, then it will not be so difficult to talk. After all, your partner does not know how to use telepathy and can only do what you think if you say it.
The first step to have an excellent communication is to know your feelings. The second level is to respect them. For example, if someone wants to have sex with you but you decide that you do not want to go that far, stick to your decision. Girls especially tend to worry too much about hurting their partner’s feelings. As a result, they end up doing things that make them feel bad later on. Saying what you think does not mean you should be cruel or rude. You must show yourself honest and kind and, if possible, friendly.
What to talk about with your partner concerning sex?
About everything! Birth control and what they would do if a pregnancy occurred. On the protection and the diseases that can be contagious. What kind of sexual activities are you prepared to experience and which ones you prefer not to have at the moment. About sex toys, fantasies and everything you can think of.
You can also talk about where you like to be touched and other things that make you feel good. Just because you are in love -or desirous- does not mean that your partner will magically know what excites you. It is essential to talk about what you do not like. If you keep pretending or doing things that you do not really like, your frustration will increase and not your love.